Talk doesn’t cook rice

Posted on November 25th, 2009 in people | 1 Comment »

1. Don’t overthink. Too much thinking often results in getting stuck, in going in circles. Some thinking is good — it’s good to have a clear picture of where you’re going or why you’re doing this — but don’t get stuck thinking. Just do.
2. Just start. All the planning in the world will get you nowhere. You need to take that first step, no matter how small or how shaky. My rule for motivating myself to run is: Just lace up your shoes and get out the door. The rest takes care of itself.
3. Forget perfection. Perfectionism is the enemy of action. Kill it, immediately. You can’t let perfect stop you from doing. You can turn a bad draft into a good one, but you can’t turn no draft into a good draft. So get going.
4. Don’t mistake motion for action. A common mistake. A fury of activity doesn’t mean you’re doing anything. When you find yourself moving too quickly, doing too many things at once, this is a good reminder to stop. Slow down. Focus.
5. Focus on the important actions. Clear the distractions. Pick the one most important thing you must do today, and focus on that. Exclusively. When you’re done with that, repeat the process.
6. Move slowly, consciously. Be deliberate. Action doesn’t need to be done fast. In fact, that often leads to mistakes, and while perfection isn’t at all necessary, neither is making a ridiculous amount of mistakes that could be avoided with a bit of consciousness.
7. Take small steps. Biting off more than you can chew will kill the action. Maybe because of choking, I dunno. But small steps always works. Little tiny blows that will eventually break down that mountain. And each step is a victory, that will compel you to further victories.
8. Negative thinking gets you nowhere. Seriously, stop doing that. Self doubt? The urge to quit? Telling yourself that it’s OK to be distracted and that you can always get to it later? Squash those thoughts. Well, OK, you can be distracted for a little bit, but you get the idea. Positive thinking, as corny as it sounds, really works. It’s self-talk, and what we tell ourselves has a funny habit of turning into reality.
9. Meetings aren’t action. This is a common mistake in management. They hold meetings to get things done. Meetings, unfortunately, almost always get in the way of actual doing. Stop holding those meetings!
10. Talking (usually) isn’t action. Well, unless the action you need to take is a presentation or speech or something. Or you’re a television broadcaster. But usually, talking is just talking. Communication is necessary, but don’t mistake it for actual action.
11. Planning isn’t action. Sure, you need to plan. Do it, so you’re clear about what you’re doing. Just do it quickly, and get to the actual action as quickly as you can.
12. Reading about it isn’t action. You’re reading an article about action. Ironic, I know. But let this be the last one. Now get to work!
13. Sometimes, inaction is better. This might be the most ironic thing on the list, but really, if you find yourself spinning your wheels, or you find you’re doing more harm than good, rethink whether the action is even necessary. Or better yet, do this from the beginning — is it necessary? Only do the action if it is.

“Talk doesn’t cook rice.” - Chinese Proverb

emptier, lonelier, and more cut off from each other

Posted on October 1st, 2009 in life | 3 Comments »

Ironically, the thing that people are most hungry for is the one thing that science hasn’t been able to give them. I’m not against technology; I’m against the men who deify it at the expense of human truth.
The question that I’m asking is this: Are we happier…the human race? Is the world fundamentally a better place because of science and technology? We shop at home, we surf the Web…but at the same time, we feel emptier, lonelier, and more cut off from each other than at any other time in human history. We‘re becoming a synthesized society…in a great big hurry to get the next new thing…
We‘re looking for meaning. What is the meaning? We have mindless jobs, we take frantic vacations, deficit finance trips to the mall to buy more things that we think will fill these holes in our lives. Any wonder that we‘ve lost our sense of direction?.

detalii

Posted on November 20th, 2008 in people, ro | 3 Comments »


Nu tuturor le este usor. Oricine se poate implica. Detalii aici.

English version here.

johnny cash

Posted on November 14th, 2008 in fun, life, me | 2 Comments »

me: ti-am zis ca vreau j cash la inmormantare?
ania: nu urla la mine
ania: ah
ania: nu
me: daca mor primul sa stii!
me: j cash hurt
ania: da creca toti sunteti nebuni… un coleg isi cauta ieri loc de veci in piata
ania: :)
ania: piata de la a la z
me: :)
me: a gasit ?
ania: nu ca i-am luat piata si ne-am uitat la preturi la caini si pisici

…later edit:

ania: da mah, loc de veci ai?
me: nu
me: ca ma vreau incinerat
me: si sa ma beti cu lapte
ania: boon

ah… P.S. thank you for the j cash version of this song, I tought it was an original NIN song first.

VISA

Posted on September 9th, 2008 in enervari, life, people | 9 Comments »

Are you a “proud” romanian citizen? Well if you want to go to Afganistan, Algeria, Bangladesh, Cambodgia, China, Ethiopia, Haiti, Congo, Irak :) , Kazahstan, Canada, USA, Nigeria, Sudan, Thailanda, Zimbabwe, Vietnam and maaaaany more countries on our little blue bubble, better get that VISA ready!!!

View the full Visa situation for romanian citizens here.

Cooling alternatives for the summer

Posted on July 24th, 2008 in life, tech | Comments Off

Rather than firing up the central air conditioning, you can keep it off or lower its power in the heat of the summer by exploring some of these low-cost alternatives.

1. Use fans. While fans don’t change the temperature of the air, they increase air movement, which will make you feel cooler by a few degrees. Look for fans with large blades. In general, the large blades will move more air with less power and less noise.

2. Cool the air naturally. If you hang damp sheets in front of your window, air coming into your house or apartment will lower the temperature of the air as it enters.

3. Wear light colors. Black fabric absorbs heat while light-colored fabric reflects. Light-weight fabric allows your skin to breathe. Fashion aside, proper summer clothing can help keep you cool.

4. Install shades and blinds. By keeping your rooms shielded from the sun, you can avoid direct light and heat. Keep the blinds closed during the day and open the windows during the night. There are window coatings available that let in light while keeping out heat. Try searching Home Depot for heat and glare control window films.

5. Wear a cooling bandana. Here’s a stylish way to keep yourself cool. Cooling bandanas can be soaked in water and are worn around the neck. As the water evaporates your body remains cool. You can find cooling bandanas on Amazon.com.

6. Avoid chores. Forget about using the clothes dryer or the oven; these appliances emit heat, so your cooling system must work harder whenever you’re cooking or drying. While the weather is hot, eliminating strenuous chores will help protect your body from dehydration. Alcohol and caffeine should be avoided as well for the same reason.

7. Spray yourself with water. Never was a wet tee-shirt contest a better idea. Keep yourself wet with sprinklers outdoors or spritzers (water bottles with a spraying handle) indoors.

8. Leave the house. Take advantage of large businesses that must keep their air conditioners running to keep customers comfortable; take a trip to the mall. If you do stay in and run the air conditioner, however, keep the thermostat high and supplement the house cooling with fans.

Where I live, the temperature has been above 90 degrees lately, with the heat index over 100 this past weekend. I don’t have it quite as bad as those in Texas, for example, but heat makes everyone uncomfortable. As someone I knew used to say, you can only remove so many layers of clothing.

via…

p.s. 13 degrees Celsius last evening :)

long pauses….

Posted on July 24th, 2008 in life, me | 1 Comment »

….will have more time in the future…. i hope….

2 weeks pause

Posted on July 8th, 2008 in enervari, Events, life, music, people | Comments Off

Romania doarme!

You might be a big fish
In a little pond
Doesn’t mean you’ve won
Cause along may come
A bigger one

….nu ma chinui sa ma explic…. Nu merita ;)

D’ale carnavalului

Posted on June 30th, 2008 in Events, life, people | Comments Off

Nea Nelu loveste din nou:

Iliescu despre Dancu: “Sta, suge din deget si emite fraze teoretice”.

Iliescu le-a recomandat tuturor celor care au obţinut rezultate proaste la locale „să stea cu picioarele în lighean” şi să analizeze „cu toată seriozitatea ce se întâmplă”.

via gandul

single moms are the most wanted employees

Posted on June 3rd, 2008 in humour, life, people | Comments Off

A recent US study reveals that single moms are a employers favourite choice because they are a lot more motivated than usual people. Since i don’t recall the exact source of this you’ll have to trust my words… checked a bit around but i could only find dating/advice-Oprah like sites. :)

So all you guys out there looking for a good job and can’t get one…. begin working on becoming a single mom! :)
cheers.